It Ain't Always Fun

I must be the biggest coward in the world. I have known for 3 weeks that one very nice gentleman is "not a match" and I have to tell him. He is sooooo nice. So, I'm going to let him know tonight. He deserves someone who will not only get that he is a great person, but also is attracted to him. Gotta have some sparks, ya know what I mean.

Coffee Anyone?

Nana isn't lacking for invitations to coffee. Someone has decided to be original and ask me to Tea next week.
I'm more of a coffee gal, but I am curious to see where he will want to meet to have "TEA". Perhaps a charming little Tea Room. The atmosphere is important to me, so I wonder where we'll meet.

Adventures, even a pleasant one like "Coffee Dating" has it's down side. There is a very sweet, kind, thoughtful man that I have to let know that I'm not interested. How I wish I was. He has so many of the qualities I am looking for. Alas, there is no chemistry for me. So, I have to let him know. I've been on the other side of this issue. But the funny thing was, I didn't take it personally. After all chemistry is an intangible thing, it's not about whether I'm attractive, funny, smart, etc. I could be all those things and just not produce any sparks for someone else. I can only hope this nice man will understand it that same way. It's all part of the Adventure in Coffee Dating.